Eugene Weekly

I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but mine have all vanished! Ever … Continue reading →

I’m a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by the pandemic, having been a … Continue reading →

I’m positive you’ve written something about this in the past. I have searched your archives, but have only managed to find people arguing in the … Continue reading →

I’m a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him and he loves me and … Continue reading →

Sex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal and human in their kinks, … Continue reading →

As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot” on all kinds of sex- and … Continue reading →

We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t really struggle with finding and trying new and interesting … Continue reading →

One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama since the day … Continue reading →

We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but couldn’t … Continue reading →

I’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old gay man. For just about … Continue reading →