Blocked
My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling around the world and pursued … Continue reading
Dan Savage
Author: Dan Savage
Add It Up
I’ve always been excited by BDSM, but I’ve only minimally explored this side of myself until very recently. I’m a straight woman and it was … Continue reading
Four Play
Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling “finding foursomes,” and the first result is an article about … Continue reading
Old Times
I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity. Like, why now? And why so various? … Continue reading
Jealous Typologies
I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past year. The only problem is that he works with a girl he used … Continue reading
Don’t Give Up
Borrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that means I’d like to love and be loved … Continue reading
Direct Messages
My husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had 12 great years together. He was also very, very organized. His death … Continue reading
Quickies
I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for 10 months. He told me that he wants to work on himself and … Continue reading
Roger That
I’m a thirty-something gay man married to a thirty-something gay man. For almost two years, we’ve been seeing another pair of married gay men around … Continue reading
Missed Connections
Married guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for almost eight years. We’ve recently both … Continue reading