The article about finding out about white supremacists in your family (“Married to Hate,” 2/1) makes a few things clear:

1. You never know what’s truly in your sweetie’s heart for at least the first 12 years of marriage. Stress will bring out character, or a lack of thereof.

2. If you don’t think you’re being propagandized and profiled with every curious click on the internet, you’re nuts.

3. Finding condoms in a married man’s wallet is a big deal breaker. Lol.

The age of innocence is over, folks.

Annie Kayner, Eugene