Eugene Weekly

I am a gay man in my late 50s and have never been in a relationship. I am so lonely, and the painful emptiness I … Continue reading →

I’m a cis woman in my mid-40s, and my significant other has a cuckolding fetish. My first response was “Oh, hell no!” But if I’m … Continue reading →

This woman has gone down on me (I’m a man) more than half a dozen times in the last three months. Each time seems to … Continue reading →

I’m in a pickle. All I want is to experience touch, intimacy, and sexual pleasure—but without freaking out. I grew up with a lot of … Continue reading →

I’ve been enjoying consensual nonmonogamy for the past two years, in part thanks to your column and podcast. I have a delightful young lover, and … Continue reading →

I’m a 27-year-old woman living on the East Coast. I’ve been sexually active and on birth control since I was 16—almost always on the pill. … Continue reading →

I’m gay and have been dating a guy for 10 months. He’s great overall, and I would say for the most part we both want … Continue reading →

I’ve been faithfully reading your column in the Chicago Reader for years, and now I’m reaching out to you about my own problem. I’ve been … Continue reading →

I’m a 20-year-old submissive woman. I’m currently in a confusing affair with a 50-year-old dominant married man. He lives in Europe and has two kids … Continue reading →

Longtime Savage Love fanboy with a bit of a conundrum—and it’s your fault! I’m a bi man in my 30s. To use Charles M. Blow’s … Continue reading →