Eugene Weekly

My grandfather was a pillar of the community and beloved by his family. He was also sexually abusive. He died when I was a child. … Continue reading →

Let’s say my kink is edging and I edge myself for a few days leading up to a date. Is it my responsibility to tell … Continue reading →

I’m a gay guy in my late 40s with a straight sister in her early 50s. She’s been married for a bit over two decades … Continue reading →

Two weeks ago, a longtime reader challenged me to create a new sexual neologism. (Quickly for the pedants: You’re right! It is redundant to describe a … Continue reading →

I am a 56-year-old heterosexual man, and I have lived with ALS for the past six years. I am either in a wheelchair or in … Continue reading →

Can I still be considered sex-positive if I personally do not have sex? I’ve never had sex or masturbated—all my life, any type of sexual … Continue reading →

I’m a 21-year-old woman, and I have an IUD. I’ve had sex with quite a few men, and one thing seems to be almost constant … Continue reading →

I’m an early-30s hetero woman in a monogamous relationship with my mid-30s hetero guy. We’ve been together 10 years, married seven, no kids. We have … Continue reading →

I’m a middle-aged man dating a younger guy. He wanted to be a “boy” to a Dom top daddy, and I was happy to oblige. … Continue reading →

I’m a 40-year-old guy with a 30-year-old girlfriend. We’ve been together a year, and I can see a future with her. But there are problems. … Continue reading →